Everyone is the architect of their own destiny
Focus on the present. Instead of dwelling on the unchangeable past or the unpredictable future, focus on each present moment.
Everything requires a process of accumulation. We cannot be impatient for quick results, nor can we be laissez-faire. Making the most of every second, diligently doing each task, makes it easier to achieve our wishes. Also, remember that focusing on one thing is better than superficially doing many things. Everyone's time and energy are limited; focusing on a specific area and continuously cultivating it leads to success. Calm your mind, remain composed. When you learn to focus, life will have more possibilities. Don't be discouraged by your efforts; your true efforts will surely turn into good fortune at the next turn, waiting to meet you.
Manage your emotions. Nothing in this world is perfect. Only those who can control their emotions can more calmly control their lives.
Be the master of your emotions and take responsibility for them. Don't let negative emotions control you for long periods. People who live calmly don't always have a good mood; they simply know how to be self-disciplined and self-restrained when a bad mood comes. Reduce resentment and focus on the positive aspects; you'll naturally be able to let go of many things. Managing your emotions brings not only peace of mind but also the courage and confidence to face new challenges.
Know how to choose. In life, we often choose between gaining and losing, always longing to obtain and possess, while neglecting giving and letting go. But only by abandoning unrealistic desires and obstacles that hinder our progress can we open our hearts and be our free and comfortable selves.
It's not wrong to strive to do something well, but if you fall into negative emotions because you haven't met your expectations, you're being too harsh on yourself. Once something is settled, acknowledge it and let it go; after letting go, start again. Let go of obsessions to have the chance to gain unlimited possibilities. Don't try to do too much, don't be too anxious; do your best in everything. Knowing how to choose and working within your capabilities is the right pace for growth.
Put yourself in the right place. To change the world, you must first change yourself. Only by putting oneself in the right position can one fully utilize one's initiative and achieve one's life goals.
When striving independently, maintain a humble heart. This allows you to remain clear-headed in the face of others' evaluations, endure loneliness, maintain yourself amidst the complexities of the world, think calmly, and steadily move towards your ideals.
When interacting with others, maintain a polite distance. Approach when appropriate and give way when necessary. Maintain both independence and intimacy, without disturbing each other yet protecting each other. In this way, a relationship can last, and you can achieve mutual success.
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