Spend more time with positive people


Buddha said, "All encounters are inevitable." In psychology, there's a theory called the "Law of Attraction," which can be simply understood as "birds of a feather flock together." The type of person you are often attracts similar people; the people you surround yourself with influence who you become.
Some people are better than you, guiding you around hidden obstacles and pushing forward together; some people are hard to define, but journeying with them is never lonely; others, seemingly no different, gradually drain your energy.
Lazy people teach you how to be cunning and deceitful, villains teach you how to swindle and cheat, and negative people give you a thousand reasons why nothing will work.
People are always different, and this difference becomes increasingly clear the longer you spend together. Wise people teach you deep thinking, brave people lead you forward, and positive people show you that life is full of beauty if you are willing to see it.

If you have negative people around you, and if you are willing, you can try using your own strength to help them break free from the cycle and reap a sense of accomplishment and long-lost happiness.
But we must also understand that there are countless people in this world, and not everyone is worth associating with. You are not the creator. People can only save themselves; there is no other way! You can never wake someone who is pretending to be asleep. Moreover, "He who stares into the abyss, the abyss stares back." If those who refuse to leave their narrow-mindedness, jealousy, bitterness, suspicion, and negativity are around you, please stay away from them as soon as possible!
Stay away from people who habitually take; don't let your efforts become a matter of course. Stay away from people who don't work hard and hold you back; you could run faster on your own. Stay away from people who always nitpick; life is beautiful and diverse; don't let yourself get caught up in meaningless disputes. Stay away from people with heavy negativity; their world is filled with injustice and resentment. A person full of negative energy is like a black hole, absorbing all the good moods of those around them.
Spend more time with positive people. Why be with positive people?
David R. Hawkins, a renowned American psychology professor, said: "The impact of energy on us is incredible. When a person is filled with negative energy, they not only harm themselves but also make the surrounding magnetic field chaotic and terrible. When a positive person appears, their magnetic field will make everything orderly and beautiful."
Positive people always find the lovely aspects of life and infect those around them with a positive attitude. They love life and can make ordinary days enjoyable; they are courageous and responsible, never shirking or avoiding their duties; they are proactive; even if life gives them a sour lemon, they can squeeze out delicious lemonade.
Sanmao said, "Life is not about how beautiful or magnificent the scenery is, but about who you meet, who warms you, and hoping that one day you can also become a small sun to warm others."
Life is only about 30,000 days. By spending more time with positive people, you can enjoy true happiness. Because they will subtly inspire your love for life and use gentle words to dispel your gloom. Over time, your world will also be filled with sunshine and fragrance.
The rest of your life is short; you have the ability and deserve to live a wonderful and bright life. By being around positive people, you will also become sunny and cheerful, making every ordinary day vibrant and flavorful.

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